Hey Ya'll...
Last week some "girl" (who must be the world's best mother) told me I was a horrible person for disciplining my child. Yes, I say, "No, no. Don't do that. Want to go to time out?" Oh, but yes, when my child is about to break something, or life threatening, I will smack the hand away or spank him. Not where it leaves a mark. But, this child like creature of a woman. Told me when is material possessions more important than your child? I NEVER said that my parent's very expensive TV that my child threw a golf putter into it, yes, my son will get a time out and a spanking. If that broke and shattered into him or fell on him. I would have died inside. I'm sorry you get your parenting advice off of google and Wiki. What the hell is that going to accomplish. I think the ONLY natural mom I can tolerate is my friend Sarah R. Why, you must ask? She doesn't freaking push it down everyone's throat. She doesn't look down on the way other's parent. She doesn't say. Educate before you Vaccinate. She respects other's decisions. I vaccinate. I don't care if you do or don't. But, if you don't, DO NOT push it down other's throats. Have people who get induced, have epidurals, have fake boobs (i don't), or anything like that. Keep your G. Dammed opinions to your damn self. I swear if this mom, named Heather, who was making everyone feel like freaking Satan. hahah. I am a GREAT parent. :) My son loves me, clings to me, is constantly by my side. HELL, I don't know when the last time I could pee in silence without him opening the door and staring into my soul while I take a piddle. haha. I love my little Top Gun. I couldn't help but LAUGH uncontrollably at this woman. I'm sorry. But, you should probably get your priorities straightened out in life. Stop, trying to tell others what to do on FB. You are probably going to get nowhere by doing such a thing. Oh, she also told me to get some more brain cells and learn my information. Ah, well, come to my hospital, I'll tell you a crap ton while you sit there and stare into the dark abyss, wondering what the hell I am talking about. I actually have quite a few. You want an extremely adult conversation? I can literally have a very mature and lovely one. I will go all 35 on you. haha. I'd rather just speak like I'm 22 for the time being.
I don't get why though that some people think they KNOW EVERY SINGLE THING ABOUT BEING A MOTHER. I think my 18 months of experience have over your 3 weeks. haha. I know damn well, I am not God when it comes to parenting. I am still learning, taking advice from everyone. I take advice from Dr. Albiek, my mom, and some of my friends with kids that have been doing this for years. Some strangers too. Why not? Not, stupid, immature, snot nosed humans though. For I should praise them and throw flowers for them just existing! :)
I truthfully dislike people for shoving down religion, politics, or parenting down my throat. I am the type of person who would tell a Jehovah Witness that I am an Atheist. (I'm a Christian.) Just so they will stop stalking the house, and wait like 5 minutes outside of the door. I take Gunner and hide. haha. I don't care about who is right or wrong in your mind. My mind is the only one that matters. It's a messed up, scary, crazy, loving mind though :)
I think that mother needed some whiskey, love, and to go use a vibrator or something just to make her shut up. She would have been so much nicer I believe. hahaha! I have a feeling I will be getting hell for this. I really do not care. Just think, you started something that was way out of context. I said, I was spanked as a child and I turned out AWESOME. They were too, as they said, and they think it is psychologically degrading to a child's well being and emotional state. It isn't supposed to make them happy. It is out of love and care. You love them so much, you discipline them so they know right or wrong. I will NEVER lay a hand as a slap, or a fist into my child. Shouldn't we be worrying more about those that do? How about the drug and alcohol addicts that don't even care that they have a child. How about dead beat mom's and dad's? Like my ex husband, who doesn't send one dime, only checks in on his son once every 1-4 months. Those we need to give lessons to. Not people who don't want snot nosed brats for children.
End Rant.
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