Dicknozzles...

DEADBEAT DADS.

If you think sending money every two weeks makes you a father. YOU ARE NOT. You're a sperm donor. A real father comes to his birthday parties. Will spend time with their child either via skype, phone call, parks, zoos, even a movie at home. Mommy dearest shouldn't have to blow up your phone to ask for you to talk or acknowledge your kid. It's pathetic. You should check on your child every single day. Asking how they are doing. My son had whooping cough. I was freaking out!! You know what I got from his dad? An "he doesn't have it." How would HE know? Then I called him when he got diagnosed with it, and he said, "oh, okay, well how do you feel?" I was bawling my eyes out. I just heard the doctor say, I know he has only been coughing for about 5 hours, but if you waited a couple more days he could be in the ICU or it could kill him. I was an emotional wreck. He didn't even send his son's crap he has been lacking on since JUNE!! JUNE! He needs his shoes, his toys. Nope, but going to the bar and spending money there is more convenient. -_- His mom and I have been on his ass constantly. I have contacted his CO and his Master Sgt. TWICE!! No call back. Jackasses. My son needs his hoodies. Parts to his crib. His shoes. Toys. Oh, and my 200 bucks from his friend that bought my mattress and box spring. I am now sleeping on my old bed from when I was 2. Thanks Wernecke. You douche. Also, if you think holding your kid for five minutes a day, buying diapers, or formula makes you a father. hahaha!!!!! Then I am Paula Deen because I can cook with butter and boil water...A FATHER is a man who will come home hold their kid after working a long day at work, feeding, baths, and other stuff. Offer mommy to sleep in and spend quality time with them. I'm sorry. We wake up so you can sleep through the night! On your days off, that changes. You help get up. Seeing your son or daughter a couple weeks or days outta the year because it is convenient for you. But you sleep all day, or have the grandparents take care of the kid makes you a deadbeat as well. Ignoring your wife, baby momma, or anything because you hate them does not mean you should use your child against them. Don't be mad at your kids. They haven't done anything. Most don't even know what way is up yet. If a bar sounds amazing to you and you need that money for food for baby or impulse buys seem more important than your child. I will stare at you like WTF? Your child comes first. 

Shit, my parent's lived in some run down apartment in Anaheim when I was little. It was small, AC went out, Lola, the landlord, was insane. We moved here to Oklahoma when I was 2. They busted their asses to get to where we are now. Nice things can wait until you know you can afford it. My mom and dad are still married. Just as badass as ever. Work for nice things. Gave us trips all over the country when growing up. I had an amazing childhood. I have seen over half of this country. I want to take Gunner to Disneyworld when he is five. For his birthday. I might be a single mom now, but I bust my ass for this kid. I mean I am about to start 12 hour shifts at the hospital just to make him have everything he needs in life. I love him. Top Gun is my world. How could you NOT love his face?

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